Impotant! needing advice/help about our moving!!!

[nathangela]

We have been on a waiting list to move for a year now.They called us yesterday with the news that an apartment had opened up.Well,here's the problem........the reason it opened up was because the lady that lived there took her own life.I'm very weary about this.Have a bad feeling in my stomach.Can this place be cleansed......what are everyones thoughts?We need your help!

Love and Light,
Angela

[Peace]

oh wow! well, have ya'll been in the place yet to get a feel of it? that way you can have a sense of what the energy is. if need be, yes, it can be cleansed. i would feel like you, though. i don't know if i'd personally want to be there. but, on the other hand, if you went there and did some sort of cleansing, then maybe you're actually helping the energy? i dunno, that's a little tricky, i suppose.

[katie14]

Oooooh, that is a tough one. The area can certainly be cleansed. Smudging would be really good, along with Reiki, of course. The real issue will be, can you deal with living there with that knowledge, even after the energy had been cleared? I'm with Aura, I think that you need to go to the apartment and get a feel for it. Maybe it will feel differently than you think.

[nathangela]

Well.....we aren't aloud to see the apartment before hand(it's section 8 HUD)BUT, we found out that they had lied to us about a few things. I called them back and asked to pass on the apartment and to just be moved down one on the list.They told us we couldn't do this-which in turn we found out is not true....we are aloud to pass on it three times.So we called them out on it and they informed us they don't have to abide by HUD rules and we would be taken off the list if we decided not to take it. We found out that the woman had children in this apartment and she OD in her bed.That bothered me due to the fact if she didn't mean to OD that maybe she would have problems moving on and think our girls were her kids etc.-We just saw all sorts of red flags and I had a terrible feeeling in my gut.So-we told them no on it.I'm heartbroken because I really want to get out of the place we're in now badly but there seems to be roadblocks everywhere.So,maybe there is a reason for me to stay here.(even though I've already been here 6 years)Thank you all for the advice....I'm glad I wasn't the only one a little freaked about the whole thing.It was just all bad.

Love and Light!
Angela

[saffy]

It does sound like a strange apartment to move into. I know some spirits are stubborn, but a lot just get lost and don't know where to go. I'm not sure how much better this would make me fell. Maybe you could at least walk up to the door and see if you get any type of energy. It's got to be difficult to walk away from this since you have been on a list for so long, but I'm sure you will do the best thing. When there are red flags I wonder if I am to walk away or break through the flags.

I'll send you Reiki to help you decide what to do.

[saffy]

It does sound like a strange apartment to move into. I know some spirits are stubborn, but a lot just get lost and don't know where to go. I'm not sure how much better this would make me fell. Maybe you could at least walk up to the door and see if you get any type of energy. It's got to be difficult to walk away from this since you have been on a list for so long, but I'm sure you will do the best thing. When there are red flags I wonder if I am to walk away or break through the flags.

I'll send you Reiki to help you decide what to do.

[nathangela]

We're not going to take it.There's obviously a reason for us to be here.I've tried moving several times and it doesn't pan out.I think I'm being told something-nudged ya know!

[katie14]

Good for you, Angela, for listening to your gut. So many times I wish that I would have......

[Sloan]

Sorry to hear that things couldn't work out for you, sending reiki for you with hopes that something new will arise!

[nathangela]

Thank you everyone!I appreciate your advice and support!

[Anamere]

I do think you would have been fine. Even if she was still there I thought maybe it was part of your path to help assist with this person's transition.

However, also feel when the right things come into my life nothing stands in the way and everything about it will feel like I'm exactly where I'm supposed to be. So I can relate to that "it just not right" feeling.

Listening to your own inner guidance is so important. Deep down you always already know the answers.

XO's and sorry I haven't been around so much lately.

miss ya!

[Peace]

well, as all the other ladies, i shall reitterate; the gut instinct is there for a reason and if it just didn't feel right, then that is the right choice. i hope something else comes through for ya, sweets!

piper: thanks for the compliment. i've been playing alot, as of late, with pictures. it's one of me hobbies:)

[nathangela]

Thanks to you all!

This is ironic.....Nathan went down to talk to our apartment manager to tell her we weren't moving.She was thrilled we weren't.She said exactly to him......"maybe there is a reason you're supposed to be here".I know now I made the right choice.I was given my signs and we'll see how it plays out.I did call HUD on the other complex because of the crap they fed us about if we don't take it we're off the list and can't pass once.They are now being investigated.Makes one wonder how many times they have done this to people thinking that just because they're poor they have no brains.Plus....I wanted to make sure this didn't happen to anyone else.The other thing is....who would want to be in a complex with management like that.So, I'm glad it didn't work out.We have a great relationship with the management here.

[saffy]

Sounds like you were still there for a reason. If you keep others from having to deal with this "so called" management company you were there for a good reason.